People are very prideful out there. Prideful people will put jobs, friendships and relationships on the line, because they aren’t big enough to take accountability for their words or actions. I’ve never been a proud type. I’m stubborn, BUT when I’m wrong, I’m wrong. I respect relationships, and I have zero issue with facing someone head on and admitting my faults. I use to hold grudges bad, but it wasn’t until I loss my mother; I made amends with someone that I highly disliked. I walked out of that church after my mother’s funeral, and this person walked up to me and gave me the biggest bear hug. I looked at her, and it took ALL OF ME to just LET THE GRUDGE GO! I swallowed my pride, and hugged her back. We then exchanged a few unsaid words and got the fuck over it. Still til this day, there are no hard feelings. We do not see each other much, but when we do, it’s all good :-)
Apologize and forgive. It’s always about YOU, not about THEM!